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Just found out your partner has cheated? Read this before you say another word to them about the affair.

Is An Affair Threatening To Split Your Marriage Apart?

Feeling betrayed, with no idea whether your marriage can be saved? A clinical psychologist shows you, step by step, how to survive the affair and rebuild your marriage.

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How to Save Your Marriage When Your Partner Has Cheated on You: the video course and study guide, hosted by Richard Wheeler
Richard Wheeler

Led by Richard WheelerRegistered clinical psychologist and psychotherapist

From: Amy Waterman

Dear Friend,

An affair is the most painful betrayal a marriage can suffer, and right now you are living through it.

When you said your vows, you both promised to stay together for better or for worse. Your partner broke that promise, and now the questions won’t leave you alone. Will they leave you for the other person? Will you ever be able to trust them again? Is it true that “once a cheater, always a cheater”?

You don’t have to find the answers on your own. There are things you should do in the weeks after an affair and things you should never do, and none of us is ever taught which is which. What you do in these weeks goes a long way to deciding whether your marriage survives.

Nearly everyone who discovers an affair wants every detail: where they met, how often, what happened between them. Richard Wheeler has heard those questions from his clients again and again, and his answer is one most people find hard to believe at first.

Do you really know what to do now that you’ve found out?

Your friends and family mean well, but they are trying to protect you, so they mostly tell you what you want to hear. What you need now is honest advice about rebuilding a marriage after an affair, and the courage to act on it.

If you believe the affair happened only because your partner was weak-willed, it’s time to look for the truth. There is always more to an affair than one person’s weak will. As I said to Richard while we were recording the course, the grounds for an affair are laid long before the affair itself begins.

Your friends and family won’t tell you that. We will tell you the truth about why affairs happen, and what you do with it is up to you. If you are reading this, I believe you are ready to stop feeling like a helpless victim and start repairing the damage.

That’s why we made How to Save Your Marriage When Your Partner Has Cheated on You. Clinical psychologist Richard Wheeler leads it, and I join him on the panel. Together we take you step by step through the issues a couple must face if they are committed to saving their marriage, and through the decisions you’ll need to make with a clear head while you hold the rest of your life together, especially if you have children.

Richard Wheeler Leads You Through Every Step

Richard Wheeler

Richard Wheeler

Richard is a registered clinical psychologist and psychotherapist who specializes in working with adults. In his private practice he works with people going through transitions, and offers life coaching and support for stress, anxiety, trauma, depression and problems in their relationships.

He leads all three programs and wrote the discussion guide for each one.

Amy Waterman

Amy Waterman

I’m a professional writer specializing in attraction and dating, and above all in marriage counseling and relationship guidance. I co-wrote Save My Marriage Today! with Andrew Rusbatch, who joins Richard and me on the panel, and I edited the study guide for this course.

Three Half-Hour Programs That Take You From Why It Happened To What You Do Next

About an hour and a half in all, recorded as a frank conversation you can watch tonight.

Richard Wheeler in the course videos
Richard Wheeler, from the course videos
  1. 1

    Understanding why the affair happened, and whether you both want to stay together

    34 minutes

    Richard starts with the questions that matter most: does the partner who strayed want to stay, and what was missing in the marriage from their side? Then he gives you seven questions that make your partner count what leaving would really cost them.

  2. 2

    Ten steps to save your relationship

    32 minutes

    Richard’s ten points for the weeks after an affair, from the first thing to stop doing to the priority the two of you share from now on. I put the hard questions to him along the way, including how soon to go back to the bedroom.

  3. 3

    Deciding what to do next

    33 minutes

    How to handle the anger that follows a betrayal, and what to do if your partner says, “I’m sorry, I want to leave. That’s why I cheated.”

Watch them online or download them to watch any time, in high or low resolution. If you would rather read, every word is in the study guide.

3 video programs · 60-page study guide · 5 exercises

The Answers You Need In The First Weeks After An Affair

Each point shows where you’ll find it in the course.

  • Why blaming your partner drives them further away, even though they are the one who broke the promise, and what to do with your anger instead.

    Part II, point 1

  • Why an affair on its own is never a good enough reason to end a marriage. Richard says it plainly and explains why.

    Part II, point 2

  • The one condition your marriage can’t be saved without, and what it tells you if your partner lies about it.

    Part II, point 3

  • Should you ask for the gory details? Almost everyone wants to. Hear Richard’s answer before you ask a single question.

    Part II, point 4

  • Seven questions that make a straying partner count the real cost of leaving, from what they would miss in you to what it would do to their friendships, their job, their money, the children and the wider family.

    Part I and its discussion guide

  • How to tell what kind of affair you’re facing: part of a pattern of affairs, or a “shipboard romance” that was never meant to last, and why the answer shapes your next step.

    Part I

  • Why you can’t forgive while you’re still angry, and where to take your anger so it doesn’t land on your partner.

    Part I and Exercise 2

  • How to take time out without walking away from your marriage, and why your time out needs a limit.

    Part I

  • How soon to go back to the bedroom, and the “pyramid” that rebuilds intimacy in the right order.

    Part II

  • What to do if your partner says they want to leave. Richard’s advice is hard to hear, and he says it can work surprisingly well.

    Part III

  • What to tell the children and the people around you, and the sign that shows your children feel safe again.

    Part III

  • How to uncover the issues that led to the affair, and “proof” your marriage against it happening again.

    Parts I and II

  • How to stop replaying the affair in your mind, let go of the old marriage and build a new one with the same partner.

    Exercise 5: Hanging on to Your Old Life

  • How to make saving your marriage a shared priority, so the work of rebuilding doesn’t fall on you alone.

    Part II, point 10

Stop The Damage Before It Snowballs Into Divorce

Discovering that your partner has cheated is devastating, and the pictures in your head keep coming back. Replaying them won’t heal anything. If you are going to survive this, and if your marriage is going to survive it, you need to respond the right way, starting now.

The course gives you concrete steps you can take right away, so the affair stops doing damage before it grows into anger, accusations and a messy divorce.

Your partner has had an affair, and your marriage can still come through it. You need to know how to talk to your partner about the affair in a way that ends the lies and puts you both back into honest, open communication, because your marriage depends on it.

“Making the decision to stay together is starting the relationship again.”

From the study guide, Exercise 5

What Is Saving Your Marriage Worth To You?

Take your spouse to a marriage counselor and you can expect to pay around a hundred dollars a session, and it takes more than one session to get the two of you communicating again.

What would you give to stop feeling powerless and get everything out in the open?

An affair is one of the worst betrayals a couple can go through, and we want every couple facing one to be able to afford this help. So the whole course costs less than a single session with a counselor: just $79.95, one time.

Recommended retail price $99.95

$79.95one-time payment, USD

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Everything You Get With Your Course

Ready in the members area the moment you order:

The three video programs

Three video programs, 1.5 hours

Richard Wheeler leads all three parts. Watch online or download them to watch any time, with a low-resolution version for slower connections.

The study guide

The 60-page study guide

The full transcript of every program, Richard’s discussion guide for each part, five exercises and a reading list. Take it away from the screen and come back to the key points again and again.

Members email consultation

Your members email consultation

Still unsure how it applies to your marriage? Write to the Save My Marriage Today team through the members area for advice on your own situation.

The five exercises in your study guide

  • Overcoming the Odds. List what you have already achieved in your life, and add “saved my marriage” to it.
  • Your Personal Insurance Policy. Choose the one person who will help you control your anger and steer you through the worst days.
  • Special Time. Keep a date diary for two weeks and see whether your relationship needs a checkup.
  • Love Profile. Find your own love language and your partner’s, and make your next loving action count.
  • Hanging on to Your Old Life. Let go of the old marriage and write down the changes you’ll make in the new one.

We Will Help You, Or You Get Your Money Back

100% satisfaction guaranteed

Your 8-week 100% money-back guarantee

Your course is covered by a personal, no-questions-asked, 8-week 100% money-back guarantee. Take up to 56 days to use the techniques, exercises and ideas on your own marriage. If you aren’t satisfied for any reason, or the course doesn’t live up to your expectations, you get your money back.

Once you have used the course to decide what to do next and to open an honest line of communication with your partner, I’m confident you’ll never want to send it back.

Yes! I want to start my marriage back on the path to healing with How to Save Your Marriage When Your Partner Has Cheated on You.

  • I’m ready to take action to stop the damage caused by the affair and start healing my marriage.
  • I want instant access to the members area, where I can watch or download all three programs and the study guide.
  • I understand my 8-week 100% money-back guarantee: I can give the course my best shot, and if it doesn’t help, I get my money back.
  • My marriage is worth trying to save, and I want my course right now.
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To repairing your marriage!

Amy Waterman
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Amy Waterman, M. A.

Co-author of Save My Marriage Today!

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What Readers Ask Before They Order

How do I get the course?

Straight after your payment you register your name and email address and go to the members download area. Your login details arrive by email, so you can come back any time.

What format are the videos in?

Each of the three parts comes in high and low resolution, as QuickTime (.mov) and Windows Media (.wmv) files. Watch them online or download them. The study guide is a PDF with the full transcript, so you can read every word instead.

Does my partner have to watch it with me?

No. The course is made for you, the partner who was cheated on, and you can start today on your own. When your partner is ready to talk, Richard’s discussion guides give you the questions to work through together.

What if my partner is still seeing the other person?

Richard deals with it head-on in the second program, including what it tells you if your partner lies about it.

Can I get help with my own situation?

Yes. Your order includes the members email consultation: write to the Save My Marriage Today team through the members area for advice on your own marriage.

How does the money-back guarantee work?

You have 8 weeks (56 days). If the course doesn’t live up to your expectations for any reason, ask for your refund through our contact page or through ClickBank. No questions asked.