From: Amy Waterman
January 27, 2020
5:30pm
Dear Friend,
I'm not going to lie about your marriage and tell you everything is going to be okay.
The bottom is dropping out of your world right now. Your marriage, everything you love and treasure, everything you have worked your life for, everything that's familiar to you... it's all on a knife-edge.
You can't eat... you can't sleep... you can't think straight...
Your health is in freefall due to the enormous stress you are under. Your whole life and future happiness, something that at one time seemed so certain, now hangs precariously in the balance, waiting for you to make the next move.
I have THREE things to share with you that can help disarm the threat of divorce and work on rebuilding and saving your marriage. Listen carefully and do them without hesitation if you want to help save your marriage.
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STOP what you are doing right now. The methods and well-meaning ideas you have used up until now more than likely have not worked. That's why you are here and your marriage is teetering even closer towards divorce. What you have done may be pushing your spouse even further away, even into the arms of another person. It's time to rethink and relearn everything you ever thought about how to save your marriage. |
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Break the lies, the resentment, the doubt, and the negative spiral of arguments that has shifted you and your spouse from being happily married to the possibility of divorce. No matter how complicated or unique your marriage issues are, our advice can help to stop the arguing and negativity, shift the focus back on YOU AND YOUR MARRIAGE, and open your eyes to the possibility of love that still simmers beneath. |
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Turn your spouse around and make them LOVE you, CHERISH you, and DESIRE you again, so that your marriage can have more of a chance at being stronger and help to prevent breakup and divorce. |
It might sound impossible right now to visualize a more renewed, loving marriage... but if you read through this page and do what it says, you can help change your marriage, shift communication with your spouse from awkward and angry to something more nurturing and positive, help create a more loving spouse and supportive marriage that you deserve.
That mind-numbing, consuming worry can get help, apply my life-changing skills and key psychological secrets to your marriage, to assist with feelings of loss and loneliness.
I am going to reveal to you my life-changing methods to help save your marriage, but first I have a very important truth to share with you before carrying on...
Chances are they don't want to tell you what their real reasons are... for fear of hurting you, for fear of making them look bad, or they might not even fully know or understand the real reasons themselves.
To assist you in discovering the truth and cut through the lies and help to save your marriage, there are several things you should learn and apply to help make that happen.
When your marriage is teetering on a cliff edge it can feel like you are the only one in the world this is happening to, and feel completely devastated at hearing one of those reasons, but let me tell you that you are not the only one who has heard them and none of these have to spell the end of your marriage if you don't want it to.
It's about digging deeper, and exposing the real reasons your marriage is in trouble, tackling the core of your crisis rather than going over the same old ground and having the same old arguments again and again... learning nothing and getting no further ahead!
The difference between a marriage that ends in divorce and one that fights back and survives is using and developing the right techniques and strategies that your marriage needs... at the optimum right time. It's about understanding and reconnecting with your core self and the crucial role you play in saving your marriage, even if you are the only one that wants to save it, the values you want to bring to your marriage, what to say, how to say it, and when, and developing this into a formula to assist your relationship.
My Save My Marriage Today system helps to strip back the relationship barriers and teaches you fundamental values, communication, and relationship skills that can help bring your marriage back from the brink of divorce, it can help develop a more solid foundation from which to build a renewed marriage.
I've seen damaged marriages that appeared to be beyond repair turned around and saved, becoming stable, intimate, loving unions, with a stronger relationship.* Heaps of people have bounced back from a huge range of nightmare issues, such as:
I've helped numerous couples, who have happily provided a testimonial on this website, disarm and stop divorces from happening to them, and we can help get the same results for YOU and YOUR MARRIAGE*...
Keep reading and I'll tell you how you can help to resolve your marriage problems and gain a more intimate and supportive relationship!*
But first, let me tell you a little bit about who I am and why I know what I'm talking about.
I am the author and host of:
I have also co-authored and hosted a number of other leading online courses such as:
You might think that nobody on earth can know what it's like to be you right now... But trust me, I do.
My best friend Jane thought her entire world had ended when her husband came home one night and asked for a divorce, telling her that it was over and nothing could make him change his mind.
She stared in shock, she cried, she asked for an explanation, but no answer she got really made sense.
Apparently her husband Adam had been unhappy for a while. Doing long hours at work, always coming home tired, he was sick of the monotony of his life and felt constrained by the expectations of his wife and family.
Jane was devastated. She had been married 14 years, had raised two children, and thought things were okay. Sure, things had been difficult in the early years with two small children, limited income, and a mortgage to pay, but they had got through it. Jane had got a part-time job in the last few years which helped with the bills, the children were getting less and less dependent, and Jane was looking forward to the next few years and what it would bring.
There were the occasional arguments over how much time Adam spent at work and how much he helped around the house. Jane was always tired with the kids and cleaning up after them every night, but she thought all couples had moments like this and she never gave it much more thought. They didn't have much time for each other but that was often the case with being a parent.
But nothing prepared her for the bombshell Adam dropped on her.
That conversation turned her whole world upside down. Everything was a blur after that.
Teary... foggy... and numb.
The next few days were hell. Every waking moment was consumed with sickening fear of what was going to happen next. She had never felt this low, never felt so REJECTED, UNLOVED, and ALONE.
Was she going to lose the house?
Where would she live?
How would she have enough money to support herself?
How would she tell her elderly parents? She knew it would just about destroy them.
How would she tell the children?
How would she endure the humiliation, the stares and the gossip from the other parents at school, her friends?
It would be a lie to say Jane didn't contemplate suicide in those first few weeks. She couldn't sleep, she couldn't eat, when she did try to eat she wanted to be sick. Her skin was terrible, her complexion drawn. She was a real mess. Her heart was broken and she felt utterly defeated.
She wanted it to end.
She reached out to me amid a teary phone call, telling me she didn't have the strength to carry on with this. I took her under my wing and started from the beginning, sharing with her and teaching her everything I knew about how to save a marriage.
Slowly but surely, Jane got better. She got stronger. She got some of her old spark back. She started to think clearly and avoided her first instinct to beg, blame, or be a victim. Using my guidance and advice, she learned all the essential steps on how to save her marriage. She could have turned away and let this defeat her... but she didn't.
Jane didn't want to give up and be another divorce statistic, no matter how hopeless it seemed at the beginning. She owed herself and her children better.
She applied the steps and strategies I gave her and started to win back her husband by doing things that at first seemed counter-intuitive. Step by step, day by day, there was a small breakthrough. She learned so much about herself and the tangible things she could do in those first few weeks, even when her husband was unresponsive. It was a total flip in the way she would have approached it, but it worked.
Slowly but surely Jane started using my techniques to let go of the anger and frustration and started communicating in a way she never had before. Bit by bit, the barriers were broken down and they started to talk, really talk, and the floodgates opened. No more fear, no more lies, no more unspoken expectations. Unbeknown to both of them, they were able to find a way forward and reconnect, and their marriage is now better than ever before!
Jane and her husband showed up at a party of mine recently and I couldn't believe the difference... in just a few months from that devastating conversation, here they were totally loved up, hand in hand, laughing and smiling at each other, staring at each other with renewed energy and love... like a honeymoon couple!
To look at them you would never believe they had been at the gates of hell only a few short months ago... but the results speak for themselves!
Encouraged by their success I started writing down some of what I knew, refining it, researching and testing it, and developing it into a formula that would help more couples avoid divorce. It was this formula that formed the foundation of "Save My Marriage Today."
I've helped countless couples save their marriage, check out the reviews on this page. This advice can help build a better future together, help re-ignite love and developing skills to prevent the relationship crisis mode.
I know it sounds CRAZY... but I know I can help make the same result happen for you... all that remains is for you to want your marriage back as bad as I want to help you achieve it!
It's time you committed to making sure that your marriage is next!
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Look, I don't buy into this well-meaning hand-holding stuff where your therapist holds your hand and tells you it's going to be alright but is still drudging through the details some 20 sessions and several months later... I have no interest in stretching this out and potentially costing you more money.
You need ANSWERS AND ADVICE that can help deliver FAST RESULTS.
You may not have time to wait for your spouse to possibly change their mind. It’s up to you to START TAKING ACTION.
I don't want to see you still working on saving your marriage in a year from now. By that time it could too late. I don't want to see you potentially living in pain and agony any longer than you could with my help. I'm not going to sit and watch you live your life with the threat of divorce hanging over you for potentially months.
I'm going to help save you. And best of all, it could happen FAST.
My marriage-saving system is going to help arm you with techniques and methods that have saved marriages before you, and give you a possible better chance of making positive changes fast. Best of all, you'll learn techniques that can help you identify lies and misunderstandings of many marital conflicts and learn some practical steps to help minimize problems.
Your marriage will get advice that can help prevent pain and risk of breakup or divorce!
Check out some of our SUCCESS stories from everyday people just like you…
Rhonda K. (Cottageville, SC).
My husband had an affair that lasted several months (and that wasn’t his first). I came to the Save My Marriage website by searching for help on the Internet. I was looking for answers and really needed the anonymity that this web site offered. My marriage was in danger because of my husband’s affair and I couldn’t discuss it with family and friends. I was hurt and ashamed even though I wasn't the cheater!
Other websites asked for huge fees for individual counseling. That was something I could get in my own community. I needed something that was more readily available, that could answer my questions, and give me a place to start. That’s when I found “Save My Marriage Today.”
The biggest benefit I have gained from “Save My Marriage Today” was perspective. There were so many lessons about how to look at what was happening in my life from a different angle. I needed clarity and hope and “Save My Marriage Today” gave me that. They used practical tips and things that I could really work on to be proactive in salvaging my relationship with my husband.
Even though a lot of the stories and lessons were focused on me, I felt empowered that I had some control back in my life. I learned that there were things I could evaluate, change and improve in terms of my outlook on life and relationships and my understanding of my marriage. The true examples from real people gave me insight that you can really survive an affair!
This web site is different from many others in that the focus of the “advice” and help really reflects the name ---- “Save My Marriage Today.” Other web sites may not have that as a goal, but the salvation of my marriage was definitely what I was looking for. *
Fred and Maureen B. (Putnam Valley, NY).
"Save My Marriage was very instrumental in helping my husband and myself understand each other by learning to communicate love words, to respect each others space, and to speak up when annoyed and not harbor anger. We were on the verge of divorce, thinking there was no way to repair the damage. Save My Marriage was a God send and we thank you so very much. After years of misgivings we are happy that we joined Save My Marriage and we worked it out and stayed together. We will celebrate our 27th anniversary this year!" *
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These secrets have helped assist couples around the world and I’m confident you can get something out of it too.
So what's the catch? You have to actually do it! Most people who fail, do so because they never take action because they fear it’s already too late or worry what their partner and others may think.
It’s also possible that they don't have the patience and passion to save their marriage, or they simply don't have the patience to relearn new life skills that will make a difference in not only their marriage but their future too! They potentially give up and divorce like many other couples, rather than take on their marriage problems and utilize my system.
Other people could fail because they have tried before and it worked for a while... but now they are back in that dark place, on the edge of the abyss with divorce drawing them down...
Taking action is scary, because it requires you to acknowledge that something could be wrong and you possibly don't have the answers to fix this one.
Let’s be honest... Do you want to smooth it over with a bit of sticking tape, hoping the patch will hold, or do you really want to dig deep and help fix it, understanding what it feels like to have been standing at the edge of the cliff and survive?
“Taking action” and “acknowledging a problem” isn’t as scary as you might think if you already have a system that has helped couples!
It's time to relearn how to live your life and help your marriage. You are never too old or too tired to give your marriage a better chance at a new life!
Don’t just stand there and do nothing. You have ENORMOUS POWER to make decisive, positive changes to your life and marriage – waffling and wasting time only diminishes that power. The longer you leave it, the more likely your spouse could move on and possibly find someone else.
Help make your spouse find YOU again! Take the time to relearn what it takes to help save your marriage!
The secret (and the difference between yourself and others who try and fail) is that you're going to start by doing ONLY ONE OR TWO THINGS.. AND DOING THEM REALLY WELL.
It's easy for people to become overwhelmed when they think about how they are going to save their marriage... where do they start, what do they do first, and most people try to do too much all at once.
And they FAIL.
But that's not going to happen to you because we approach your marriage differently.
A very wise friend told me once a story about how to eat an elephant. Do you know how you eat an elephant?
One mouthful at a time.
And that's exactly where we're going to start as you work through my step-by-step instructions, hands-on exercises that you can do at the end of each chapter (and no, you don't have to have your partner do them with you, you can do them yourself!), learn and apply my sound psychological tips as you increase your personal awareness and work on your own personal development, channel the many emotions you have as you walk the journey towards marital reconciliation, heal the emotional gulf caused by years of neglect, misunderstanding, bad memories, and failed expectations...
... and reprogram your marriage and your own life so that the two of you will not only reconnect... but forge an entirely NEW relationship that leaves behind the mistakes and frustrations of your past! This new relationship will be intoxicating, and you and your spouse will CRAVE each other's company and affection and the new found bond you have as you create new dreams and live them together!
But you aren't going to rush to do it all at once.
That's a mistake you might have made in your past, rushing to get it all right and smoothing over the cracks. Chances are this isn't the first time you have been at crisis point, which is why I'm going to teach you NEW skills this time, to make sure it NEVER HAPPENS AGAIN.
You are going to learn each new skill as you ready to learn it... not before. And as you learn and apply each new skill, it's going to rewrite your life and your marriage. You're going to be so excited!
You are going to reconnect on a much higher level, both verbally, physically, and emotionally, every day reaffirming to each other that you are their dream spouse and are part of their exciting future, wherever that may be...
Welcome to your dream life and marriage. Let me give you the key.
Look, I want to make it as easy as possible for you to get my course and get assistance with saving your marriage right now, which is why my course is available via instant download!
You can be reading my Save Marriage course from the comfort of your own home and start learning how to you can disarm divorce and creating a happy, intimate, and strong marriage in under 5 minutes! Even if you have never downloaded something from the internet before, it's so easy to do that you'll wonder why you didn't try it sooner.
Plus, because I'm offering it to you via the internet, you reap the benefits of:
Many of you could learn how to save your marriages through trial and error, and eventually may reach success, but a lot more of you will become additional casualties in our growing divorce statistics.
Don't risk the possibility of being divorced, broke, lonely, watching your spouse with another person, and wishing that you had taken your marriage seriously while you had the chance.
If you could do anything to avoid this, you would grab it with both hands wouldn't you?
I'm throwing you a lifeline here, but you may be running out of time before your spouse walks out of your life forever so you have to ACT NOW.
What's it gonna be?
Picture this: It's a year from today (or a lot sooner), and your marriage is so solid and strong that all your friends are remarking how happy you and your partner seem to be. You've recovered from the stress you went through last year due to your marriage issues, and you are in a much happier place. You laugh together, hug and hold each other, tell each other how much you love one another, and you feel so lucky to have been given a second chance to get things right. Even better, you know that it would take wild horses to tear you and your spouse apart now.
Now, stop and look back on today. Considering that you've resolved this major crisis in your life and learnt so much about successful marriages, and know that you are less likely to be in that situation again, what price tag would've made it a good investment?
I've had people tell me they would happily pay $1000 or more to achieve these kind of life-changing results, and many have offered me more than that for one-on-one consulting.
However I'm not even going to charge you anywhere close to that price AND if you join TODAY, you will receive a free email-based consultation with your order! (This takes a lot of time for my team and I, so we can't guarantee this bonus will be available for very long)
Save My Marriage Today PLUS ALL the bonuses, is available to you TODAY for...
Just one payment of $49.95!
I know people think I'm crazy, but I want to make this course as accessible as possible to help more of you avoid the unnecessary pain of divorce. I want you to be as happy as my friend Jane and the other couples who have achieved success with Save My Marriage Today!
Now I don't want you to feel as though you are taking any risk here. I mean, we all buy products on the internet, not knowing how good they are until you get them open, and I don't want you to be disappointed.
I believe in my course so much, I'm willing to put my hand in my pocket. If you don't like this course, I'm not going to charge you a cent!
That's right! Take 60 days to use and examine my crucial information, and techniques in "Save My Marriage Today." That's more than 8 weeks to put these valuable strategies to work on your marriage.
Try the techniques yourself… Try as many of the tips as you can. Once you have used these strategies on your marriage, I'm confident that you'll NEVER want to send it back!
But, if you aren't satisfied for any reason, or it doesn't live up to your expectations, you won't be out one red cent. Just send me an email and I will refund your payment. Right up to the final day of this 60 day guarantee.
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Author of "Save My Marriage Today!"
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