Depressed Spouse? Help With Depression In Your Marriage | Save My Marriage Today
Andrew Rusbatch
Amy Waterman

When someone you love is depressed, the way you respond can help them through it or push them further away.

Do You Need Help Dealing With Depression In Your Marriage?

Wondering what to do when someone you love is depressed, and feeling powerless while your marriage falls apart around you? Here is how to help your spouse and your marriage survive depression.

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From: The Save My Marriage Today team

Dear Friend,

Living with a depressed partner can feel as if a dark cloud has come down over the world, and you may be wondering if the person you loved will ever come back.

Don’t worry: you are not alone in this, and you don’t have to work out on your own what helps your partner and what makes things worse.

The Save My Marriage Today! Premium Home Study Course is here to help you cope with your partner’s depression. It shows you exactly what you should and should not do to help them through it and get your marriage back on track, with a whole program on depression in a marriage and a full course on the problems that so often come with it.

Amy Waterman, clinical psychologist Richard Wheeler and the Save My Marriage Today team talk it through on video, plainly and step by step, and every program comes with a study guide holding the complete transcript. You can start today, in the privacy of your own home.

An Hour And A Half On Depression In Your Marriage

Depression gets a program of its own, made for the husband or wife who lives with it every day.

How To Save Your Marriage When Your Partner Has Depression

How To Save Your Marriage When Your Partner Has Depression

3 half-hour lessons · 1.5 hours · study guide

The panel looks at how to understand and help a partner who is suffering from depression: recognizing it, seeking treatment, and building a relationship where the two of you can talk about depression and face it as a couple.

  1. IDefining and Identifying Depression
  2. IIOvercoming Depression: A Range of Treatments
  3. IIIDepression and You: Sex and Relationships

  • What to look for. How do you know if your partner is depressed? Key signs that tell you whether it is depression or not.

  • Understanding depression. What depression really means, with the common myths cleared away.

  • Key strategies for talking about depression and helping your partner overcome it.

  • Negotiating treatment. What treatments exist, and how to make an informed choice about what suits your partner best.

  • Transformation. Your partner’s turning point, and how to motivate them to reach it.

  • Pointers for partners. Feel you are doing all the giving? How to stay strong and be the best support you can be.

  • Being a positive role model. Leading your partner with your actions, which can have a real effect on overcoming depression.

Yes! I want to help my spouse and my marriage through depression.

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You Can’t Carry Your Partner’s Depression On Your Own

When your partner is depressed, it is easy to give and give until there is nothing left of you. The pointers for partners show you how to fortify yourself so you can be the best support you can be, and the course shows you how to bring caring and self-caring back into your marriage, so that you are looked after too.

Your own example counts. Leading your partner with your actions can have a real effect on overcoming depression, and once you have found your partner’s turning point, you learn how to motivate them to reach it. The third lesson is about depression, sex and your relationship, so the two of you can stay close while you face it together.

What Mark Wrote After Watching The Course

“I can see glimpses of the woman I fell in love with.”

Her moods were terrible and she seemed withdrawn from me and the family. After a few months of agony she moved out… I didn’t know what to do, and I thought it was all my fault. Then I downloaded your course and watched you, Amy and Richard, it all started to make sense.

After making contact with my wife again and talking with her, we established that she had an alcohol and pain-killer addiction. We both decided to enter her into a course of treatment, and even though it is early days, I can see glimpses of the woman I fell in love with.

Mark and Christine T.Premium Home Study Course member

Read the members’ stories in full →

The Premium Course Covers Far More Than Depression

Depression is rarely the only strain on a marriage, so with this program you get the whole Premium Home Study Course: the 12-part course, the programs on infidelity, money and addiction, and two audio interviews.

Save My Marriage Today! Premium 12-Part Course

Save My Marriage Today! Premium 12-Part Course

12 video lessons · about 2 hours · study guide

Answers to the urgent questions you need answered to understand and save your marriage, in twelve video lessons. Amy Waterman, clinical psychologist Richard Wheeler and the Save My Marriage Today team talk through your partner, your expectations and the part you play in your marriage, and how to rescue it from the cycle of negative behavior that is tearing you apart.

  1. IIntroduction
  2. IIThe Life Cycle of a Real Relationship
  3. IIIExamining Our Expectations
  4. IVExamining Beliefs
  5. VMasculine and Feminine
  6. VIGender Roles
  7. VIIA Place for Each Other
  8. VIIIMarriage in Crisis
  9. IXAnger
  10. XManaging Anger
  11. XIThe Big Picture
  12. XIICrossroads
What the lessons cover

  • Identifying your issues. Do you know exactly why your marriage is in crisis? Techniques that get you to the real issues quickly.

  • Your expectations of marriage. Not what you thought it would be? What you must know, and how to clear away the misconceptions that are plaguing your marriage.

  • Your beliefs. How your beliefs and learned behaviors affect your partner and your marriage, and why they may be less accurate than you think.

  • A place for each other. Do you feel smothered, or wish you had more time together? How to balance both your needs in the relationship.

  • Managing anger. Strategies for processing and controlling anger as a couple, and new ways to handle stress and express it positively.

  • Falling out of love. What to do when your partner tells you it’s over, and why they feel that way.

  • Transformation. Breaking the bad habits of the past and moving forward, so your relationship turns around in the shortest time.

How To Save Your Marriage When Your Partner Has Cheated On You

How To Save Your Marriage When Your Partner Has Cheated On You

3 half-hour lessons · 1.5 hours · study guide

When a partner has strayed, deciding to face it and talk about it can be one of the hardest conversations a marriage ever has. Clinical psychologist Richard Wheeler leads this panel discussion with Amy Waterman and the Save My Marriage Today team on the issues a couple must face if they are committed to saving the marriage.

  1. IUnderstanding Why the Affair Occurred, and Whether You Want to Stay Together
  2. IITen Steps to Save Your Relationship
  3. IIIWhat To Do Next
What the lessons cover

  • Growing apart. A simple way to change direction so you grow together in life and love.

  • What ending a marriage really costs. The immediate and future impact of a divorce, in real terms.

  • Time-out. How to use time apart positively and effectively, so it protects your marriage.

  • Ten steps to save your marriage. Stop the decline and start making improvements immediately.

  • Leaving your past behind, so you can enjoy your marriage as it is right now.

  • Rediscovering your relationship. Getting back to basics and getting to know your spouse all over again.

  • New tools for communication that break the habits of the past and help you reconnect with love.

How To Save Your Marriage From Money Problems

How To Save Your Marriage From Money Problems

3 half-hour lessons · 1.5 hours · study guide

Money is one of the biggest issues in modern marriages, and the fight is about much more than the money itself. The panel digs into the real issues behind money problems and the structured approach that helps you and your partner overcome them.

  1. IIdentifying Your Financial Personality
  2. IIRealizing Dreams and Ambitions
  3. IIIOne-Income Families
What the lessons cover

  • Attitudes to money. Is your attitude to money stifling your partner? Simple ways to bring communication and love into money talks and decisions.

  • Being present. Ever been told you don’t listen, or you’re not really “there”? How to give to the relationship in more ways than money.

  • Communication. Why money needs a rethink in the way you talk, and the most common mistakes to avoid.

  • Balancing goals. How to reach what you want now and in the future, and manage both at once.

  • Support systems. The options and support available to couples in difficulty.

  • One-income families. The damaging mistakes so many couples make, and how to avoid power struggles at home.

  • Couplehood. Looking past the cash flow at the way the two of you work together.

How To Change Your Partner From Addiction, Even When They Don’t Want To

How To Change Your Partner From Addiction, Even When They Don’t Want To

3 half-hour lessons · 1.5 hours · study guide

Gambling, alcohol, drugs or the internet: the panel defines addiction and answers the problems specific to the marriages it touches. That covers recognizing an addiction your partner may have lived with for years, treatment and the hard days of withdrawal, and making sure your own emotional needs are met along the way.

  1. IDefining & Recognizing Addiction
  2. IIEveryday Issues of Addiction
  3. IIITreating & Overcoming Addiction
What the lessons cover

  • Defining addiction. The key signs of whether your partner has an addiction or not.

  • Self-soothing. Why your partner is tied to their addiction, and why it makes them feel good.

  • Common issues for all addictions that you need to understand to help your partner through.

  • Testing your commitment. What you have to face in your fight to help your partner overcome it.

  • Keys to transformation. Where the turning point is, and how to get there.

  • Detoxification. The different forms, and which suits your situation.

  • Core therapies for overcoming addiction, and what each can offer you and your partner.

  • Relapse prevention, so the addiction doesn’t return.

  • Tips for partners. How to support your partner and still meet your own needs.

Plus Scot And Emily McKay, And Mimi Tanner, In Two Audio Interviews

Scot and Emily McKay

“Living with a Partner with a Mental Illness”

Audio interview · 45 minutes · with Scot and Emily McKay

What is it like to live with a spouse who has a mental illness? How can you recognize it, and help, if you suspect your partner is ill? Coping techniques for living with the uncertainty of your partner’s illness, and what it takes to rebuild your life again.

Mimi Tanner

“How to Keep Your Spouse in Love with You Forever”

Audio interview · 13 minutes · with Mimi Tanner

The secrets of becoming the person your spouse can’t live without: why it’s okay to have flaws, how to keep your spouse thinking about you when you’re apart, and how a simple investment in your own life and interests keeps your time together exciting.

Thirteen Ideas That Help Turn A Marriage Crisis Around

Running through the lessons, and only part of what you’ll learn:

  • Personal growth. Why your relationship is crucial to your own future success and your partner’s.

  • The importance of presence. What you are really contributing to the relationship, and new ways to connect with your spouse.

  • The key stages of a relationship. Take the test and find out which stage you and your spouse are at.

  • Perfection is an illusion. Why your marriage should be imperfect, and why change is nothing to fear.

  • The polarity of your roles. What sets men and women apart, and how and why opposites attract.

  • Nature versus nurture. Patterns from your past that explain the way you and your spouse treat each other today.

  • Dealing with anger. How anger works, and the 3 crucial rules for dealing with conflict.

  • Superficial or critical? A measure of how healthy your marriage is right now.

  • Transformational moments. The key factors that create a turning point in a marriage.

  • Caring and self-caring. How to support and nurture your partner, and yourself, through a crisis.

  • Short-term and long-term goals that guide your marriage out of difficulty and give it focus now and in the future.

  • Abundance versus poverty mentality. How your outlook shapes the happiness of your marriage.

  • Family and social support. The power of the people and organizations around you.

Learn From Amy Waterman, Clinical Psychologist Richard Wheeler And Their Guests

Your host is Andrew Rusbatch, co-author of Save My Marriage Today!

Amy Waterman

Amy Waterman

Co-author of Save My Marriage Today!

A professional writer on attraction, dating and, above all, marriage and relationship guidance. In the course Amy teaches the power of recognizing your emotions and releasing them in a positive way, what to do when you are resisting the issues in your marriage (what you resist, persists), and which resources help you understand yourself and your marriage better.

Richard Wheeler

Richard Wheeler

Registered clinical psychologist and psychotherapist

Richard works with adults: people in transition, and people living with stress, anxiety, trauma, depression or problems in their relationships. He teaches how your marriage difficulties are asking you to take action, the importance of gender roles in a relationship, and why you have to own what is going on in your marriage.

Scot and Emily McKay

Scot and Emily McKay

Authors, podcasters and relationship coaches

Their mantra is Deserve What You Want: you have to BE the best partner possible to GET the best possible partner. In their interview with Amy they talk about living with an ex-spouse with a mental illness: how to recognize it and stick to your truth, how to cope with the uncertainty, and what it takes to rebuild your life.

Mimi Tanner

Mimi Tanner

Author and dating writer

Mimi wrote Calling Men, Secrets of Flirting with Men and Man Mistake Eraser!, and her daily email column is read by women all over the world (and the men listening in). In her interview she shares how to keep your spouse in love with you forever.

Everything In The Premium Home Study Course

Watch online or download to your computer, and keep lifetime access to the members area.

  • The Premium 12-Part Course. About two hours of video on the most common and relevant problems for couples in crisis. Start here, then move on to the program for your own situation.

  • Four programs on specific crises. Infidelity, money problems, addiction and depression, an hour and a half each, in three half-hour lessons.

  • Five study guides with complete transcripts. Take the lessons away from the screen, open a conversation with your partner using the discussion guides, complete the exercises, and come back to the key points as often as you need.

  • Two audio interviews. “Living with a Partner with a Mental Illness” with Scot and Emily McKay, and “How to Keep Your Spouse in Love with You Forever” with Mimi Tanner.

  • A members’ email consultation. Still unsure how to approach your own problem? Write to the Save My Marriage Today team for advice on your specific situation.

  • The panel’s recommended resources. Every book and resource the team, Richard Wheeler and our guests mention and recommend in the course, listed in the members area.

Think of the Premium course as insurance for your marriage. It helps you repair the damage the most common marriage problems cause, and it prepares you for whatever your marriage faces next, so the two of you meet it as a team.

What would it be worth to you to have this part of your life dramatically better? Picture a marriage where you understand each other and talk openly and honestly, where you keep learning and growing in love together, and where the arguments of the past stay in the past along with the mistakes that caused them.

We value that above the value of a house. A loving, committed relationship is the foundation of a satisfied life, every bit as important as the home you own or the car you drive. Get it wrong, and a divorce can cost you the house and your life savings as well.

The whole Premium Home Study Course is yours for one payment of $167, less than two sessions with a marriage counselor at $120 an hour and upwards. It costs less than fixing a small dent in your car. Which would you rather fix: the dent, or your marriage and your family’s future?

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To your marriage success,
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P.S. If the Premium Home Study Course doesn’t help you get through your marriage problems caused by depression as much as you expect, you are covered by our 100% satisfaction, no-questions-asked guarantee for 8 full weeks. That’s how convinced we are that it will work for you. You have no risk, so start today.

P.P.S. Want to know which resources the panel relies on? Inside the members area you get the full list of resources our team, clinical psychologist Richard Wheeler and our guests mention and recommend in the course, so you can understand what is happening in your marriage without leaving anything to chance.

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What People Ask Before They Order The Premium Course

How do I get the course?

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Does my spouse have to watch it with me?

No. Much of the course is about what you can change yourself: your reactions, your beliefs and the part you play in your marriage. If your spouse is willing, the study guides include discussion guides the two of you can work through together.

How is this different from the Save My Marriage Today! book?

The original Save My Marriage Today! is the 158-page book with 38 exercises. The Premium Home Study Course is a video course: the 12-part course, four programs on specific crises, five study guides and two audio interviews. On the order form you can add the original e-course to your Premium order for $20.

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Yes. As a member you can write to the Save My Marriage Today team through the email consultation form in the members area and get advice for your specific situation.

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What if the course isn’t right for me?

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