Welcome to the Save My Marriage Today Testimonials Area!
On these web pages, members of SaveMyMarriageToday.com share with you their experiences of my course. I am sure that you will enjoy reading how my course has helped so many people just like you. Will you be next?
Rhonda K. (Cottageville, SC).
My husband had an affair that lasted several months (and that wasn’t his first). I came to the Save My Marriage website by searching for help on the Internet. I was looking for answers and really needed the anonymity that this web site offered. My marriage was in danger because of my husband’s affair and I couldn’t discuss it with family and friends. I was hurt and ashamed even though I wasn't the cheater!
Other websites asked for huge fees for individual counseling. That was something I could get in my own community. I needed something that was more readily available, that could answer my questions, and give me a place to start. That’s when I found “Save My Marriage Today.”
The biggest benefit I have gained from “Save My Marriage Today” was perspective. There were so many lessons about how to look at what was happening in my life from a different angle. I needed clarity and hope and “Save My Marriage Today” gave me that. They used practical tips and things that I could really work on to be proactive in salvaging my relationship with my husband.
Even though a lot of the stories and lessons were focused on me, I felt empowered that I had some control back in my life. I learned that there were things I could evaluate, change and improve in terms of my outlook on life and relationships and my understanding of my marriage. The true examples from real people gave me insight that you can really survive an affair!
This web site is different from many others in that the focus of the “advice” and help really reflects the name ---- “Save My Marriage Today.” Other web sites may not have that as a goal, but the salvation of my marriage was definitely what I was looking for.*
Fred and Maureen B. (Putnam Valley, New York)
Save My Marriage was very instrumental in helping my husband and myself understand each other by learning to communicate love words, to respect each others space, and to speak up when annoyed and not harbor anger.
We were on the verge of divorce, thinking there was no way to repair the damage. Save My Marriage was a God send and we thank you so very much.
After years of misgivings we are happy that we joined Save My Marriage and we worked it out and stayed together. We will celebrate our 27th anniversary this year!*
Brett P. (Longmount, CO)
Just this past September, I returned home from a weekend business seminar trip to find my wife waiting for me by the door. She had her keys in her hand and said she had packed up her belongings and was moving out. I was devastated to say the least.
In my heart I did not want to lose my wife and my family. I still had a great deal of love for her. During this time I was also continually trying to call her, email and track her down, pressuring her to tell me what was going on. Unwittingly I was making it worse.
I found the Save My Marriage Today website and though it might be a scam, but I took the risk and ordered the on-line book and resource information. I printed it out and read it over, highlighting that night to cover key areas and making lots of notes.
The next day I began applying the methods and techniques and committed to staying the course. The thing is that I have noticed is a huge change in myself and an understanding of who I am and it wasn’t what “she had done to me” but rather what I did and didn’t do that had the biggest impact upon our outcome.
My wife and I are now going out on dates, laughing, talking and enjoy being around each other again, and for me that is huge.
Save My Marriage Today put it together for me, it made sense and got me to slow down, live in the moment and think about what is really important and how I can achieve it. The weekly bonus emails are great too because they remind me to stay focused and cover new topics I might not have thought about or realized.
It takes work and it’s the biggest thing I’ve ever been through but with the right tools I know I can do it.*
Elsa K. (Nelspruit, South Africa)
I have been married for six years and my marriage was in distress and I had reached a point where I wasnt sure whether to keep trying or to give up. We argued each time we opened our mouths and we no longer enjoyed each others company. I had blamed everyone and everything from family and friends to our jobs and the fact that we live in a foreign country. I was headed for possible divorce and contemplating suicide.
After going through the lessons I began to look at myself and I then began to assess myself, my actions and my behavior towards my husband. I began to realize that it was the way in which I acted and behaved towards him that was bringing about the biggest problems. (Funny enough he always said this to me whenever we fought but I was too busy shouting to listen).
I'm glad I came across your website. The situations and solutions presented are real, practical and simple to implement. Other websites painted a picture that marriage should be absolutely perfect and have no problems but we all know that's impossible to achieve. However your website has shown me that marriage needs work and a change in certain attitudes and behaviours, and after that things are not as complicated as we like to think.
Thanks Save My Marriage Today for a wonderful website and for helping me get my marriage back on track!*
Robert and Joanne H. (Powell River, BC, Canada)
My wife and I have been married for 31 years this June. I always said that we lasted so long due to my working out of town for the first 24 years. I had a motorcycle accident that ended my career and forced me into retirement at the age of 50. The first year after that was fine as we got to know each other again. After that we seemed to start getting on each other's nerves as we had not had to have each other around so much.
Two years ago my wife was injured at work when she blew out both knees moving patients in the Extended Care home she worked in. Now both of us are at home full time and really getting on each other's nerves. I saw an ad for Save My Marriage and put in a subscription. I found the articles to be very helpful and insightful, and there were times that I thought there was a spy in our home as the articles were so personally related.
We have gone from "I should divorce you" to "Maybe I will keep you around for another 30 years." Marriage is hard work and if you have the right tools and are willing to work with them, you can make it last forever. I think my wife and I are soul mates and I think I would be completely lost without her. I hate to think where I would be if I had not met her when I did.*
Maureen M. (Kakamega, Kenya)
Since I began reading the newsletters of Save my marriage today I have actually been able to change and also change my fiance's attitude. We had poor communication skills and we could quickly grow silent to one another and not be able to solve conflicts.
Since I began reading your Save My Marriage Today newsletters I am changed and I have also given him some newsletters to go through. He has also improved. Thanks so much for your advice and help! Our relationship has made some great breakthroughs and we are soon getting married!
May God bless you for what you are doing. Through your newsletters we realized we were actually too busy to make time for one another. The only thing we saw was better ways to look for money and make ourselves rich but it did not bring joy to us. After reading your articles we are now in love again and we do as much as we can to create quality time for one another.*
Doug M. (Davie, Florida)
First, I would like to thank everyone involved in this site because not only have you taught me things to save my marriage but you have also made me look deep inside myself as a person, father and husband...
I have realized things about myself that I would have never thought to even look at before I read all of the articles that has been provided to me through your site. Thanks to you my wife and I are working with our marriage to make it last as we stated in our vows.
We have been married since November 18th, 2000. We have two daughters ages 7 and 9 and we love to be together. Before I subscribed to your website we barely ever had a family dinner together, and now it is an everyday occurrence. I feel that I am forever indebted to you all. I feel that without your knowledge and influence I would be destined for divorce, so thank you.
What led me to your site was desperation in wanting our marriage to succeed after exhausting our local resources in marriage counseling, mediators and what have you. We couldn't find a common ground and with you we felt like you answered our questions as to figure out where it went wrong and how to work back to the love we had in the beginning...
I found the biggest benefit from Save My Marriage Today was that you are educators in life, love, and happiness and that someone out there is human and understands the demands of the common family in society today, including struggles with money, intimacy, and your life not just your marriage. And your not in it for a paycheck. All
other websites that I have found don't really help. They are just looking to get your credit card number.
I have spent countless dollars trying to get help and was sadly disappointed in all until now with you.. Save My Marriage Today has been a blessing to our family and we all thank you.*
Inemobong U. (Akwa Ibom, Nigeria)
Save My Marriage Today newsletter is a divine intervention on my newly wedded marriage. Before i came in contact with "Save My Marriage Today," I never saw anything wrong with communicating with my ex-lovers, even when my wife was hurting extremely, because I was not intending to have any physical contact with them.
When I saw the site and seriously followed the lessons, I printed the lectures, took them home, and invited my wife to my studies and took some quality time to read the newsletter together. We would not have known what to do without "Save My Marriage Today." It was there my wife told me that she had already visited her lawyer to consider divorce.
Now my marriage is experiencing a tremendous transformation. I, on behalf of my wife am very grateful to "Save My Marriage Today" for practically saving ours. What makes "Save My Marriage Today"different from other sites is that it is very simple and practicable to even a layman's understanding.*
First of all, I would like to thank you so much for the knowledge you have so kindly shared with me in your newsletters. I can't believe how much our marriage life has changed since I started receiving your e-mails. Our marriage was deeply in crisis before I came across your website. Me and my partner were not talking to each other for months and what was in my mind was divorce. Glad to say that every single piece of information you have given me has helped me save my marriage.
The words "Save My Marriage Today" drew my attention when I came across your website. I found in your information ways to understand my wife and the bad responses I've exhibited to her actions. I reevaluated my life after reading your newsletters and turned upside down other aspects of my life as well, and I'm happy with my wife. It's a major breakthrough.
I'm glad to have someone like you for your quest to have a peaceful home and a peaceful world. (This clearly makes Save My Marriage Today different from other websites). In fact through your information, I have recovered from where I was going wrong and everything you have told me has worked, and worked well and I'm strongly recommending your knowledge to couples all over the world. My wife also thanks you and wishes that more men read your newsletters.*
John and Marianne E.
Dear Amy, thank you so much for the insightful and knowledgeable mini-course, and for your book on "Save My Marriage Today". My wife and I have been married for 19 years, and all of a sudden, things were going wrong. It seemed like no matter what I said or did, it was wrong. My wife moved out, and three months before our 20th anniversary, I truly thought our marriage was over.
I didn't know what to do or where to turn, but one day, while reading my e-mail, I got an e-mail about your web site, and liked what I read. Then I downloaded your book, read it through, and got my wife to read it as well. It was a God send! We then began taking your course and doing the exercises together, and I am happy to report that she is moving back in, and in January, we will be celebrating our 20th anniversary.
It opened our eyes to some of the problems we had been having, and helped to open the lines of communication between us. I highly recommend this course to anyone that thinks their is no hope left for their marriage. We are going to continue to read your articles, and take your courses, and of course, work on our marriage. Many thanks again.*
Kathleen W. (San Francisco, CA)
I just want to write to say "thank you."
Last year, my husband and I got into a huge fight and ended up separated. I was desperate to save my marriage, while my husband had completely cut off from me emotionally and physically. One night, I decided to Google "marriage advice" and came across your site. I'm not one to buy into infomercials or anything promising anything, but, like I said, I was desperate.
Your Save My Marriage Today emails and course helped me through one of the hardest periods of my life. And, better yet, after six months of separation, my husband and I got back together. We literally came back from the dead; I didn't think it was possible. Your advice was absolutely instrumental to that happening. So, thank you!*
Almaz (Ethiopia, East Africa)
Dear Amy, Thank you for your course. When I started I was in a critical situation but now I recovered. I was not happy in my marriage and I couldn't understand my husband. I thought I always right and I blamed him.
But now I learned a lot and I understand that only being right is not useful in marriage life and I changed my life style my attitude and my action. God bless you. ...Because of your teaching I am starting to open the situation for communication and I understand the better thing is to change myself instead of my spouse. ...May God bless you and your ministry.*
Dear Amy, Many thanks for sharing with us such powerful ideas. In my role as childbirth educator I come across numerous young couples who, though most are having their first baby, do not realize how important their relationship is, and how it affects their pregnancy and birth outcome not to mention their future life as a married couple.
What I like about your course is that it gives the couple the feeling of control on their own choices in life, especially the way they choose to think and interpret the partner's behavior. Your positive methods for a better and fulfilling married life are certainly compatible with the empowerment I try to give to couples with regards childbirth and early parenting.
I have bought your books which will certainly come useful in my classes. I have nothing more to say other than thank you for helping me help others and keep up your good work!*
Debbie C. (Sydney, Australia)
It was when I saw the information on "Marriage in Extreme crisis" that it really touched a cord with me as that is exactly how I felt. As you say there is a lot of reading with the information I received and there sure are a lot of a-ha moments in the information. I am currently reading the "Journey" which is particularly powerful to me as I associate with this person. I need to read this kind of information as it makes me accountable for myself.
In reading Saving My Marriage and Saving My Marriage 2 it became really clear to me that something that my husband and I had were very different values. That information on values has been so helpful to me and has cleared up many misconceptions I had thinking that he and I were thinking along the same lines.
I have printed out and given my husband both "saving my marriage" and "marriage in crisis" to read and do the exercises with me and although he said he would participate in them, he does the barest minimum that he thinks will make me happy, but it is more than he's ever done before.
I am learning more and more with each piece of information I read and am growing stronger and more self reliant day by day. I don't need to rely on anyone else for my happiness, I no longer love my husband, but probably get on better with him these days.
I honestly don't know if we will end up staying married. He would really like to whereas I don't think I can ever trust him again, but, while I am stuck in this situation I need to make sure I keep learning ways and means of improving myself and learning how to deal with the situation by reading the wonderful material in "Save My Marriage Today "*
I have had your help less than 12 hours. I can say it has not only started me on the process to save my marriage, but also in my other relationships (mother, daughter, friend, colleague). By taking your advice, my husband has said the 1st nice thing to me in 3 months. You only get one chance, I checked you out on a review and they rated you highly. I needed help immediately and I got it. Thank you.*
Kelly S. (Canada)
Thanks so much for your help. Your books really helped me not only to realize about saving my marriage, but saving myself as well. I feel like a new and much happier person regardless of what happens in my marriage. Thanks again.*
Steven B. (Virginia, USA)
Thank you for responding soo quick, I must say that your book is an incredible source for anyone that's in a relationship, i've probably read it 2 times in the past week. Each time I read it I learn more and more. I like the chapter on the Love Bank, its a brilliant concept.*
Mary-Ellen J. (Australia)
Thanks for your support,You were spot on with the unrealistic expectations (comparing my feelings for my husband with a past love -first love). I am now much more relaxed about my marriage - my husband and I are working through the exercises in the book and are finding it very valuable .I now am confident of a long lasting, successful marriage (even if there are challenges along the way).Thanks again - am recommending your website to my friends.*
Dr Michael Nebehay. (Schlierbach, Germany)
Deeply impressed by your commitment! I got very valuable information that helps me for my own marriage as well as for the marriage preparation courses I am giving for the couples who want to marry in church. Many thanks! God bless you and your work,
Dearest Amy, Yes, I've learned a lot from this mini course. Thank you so much. I am saving every lesson so i can just read it all over again, probably with my husband. More power to you and God bless.*
Fran C. (Canada)
Your six day course was an eye-opener. I enjoyed how it was structured and presented from the first day to the six day. It gave me insight on where to begin and continue. It also pointed out how it would not be easy to do especially when you have to look at yourself. Thank you for listening and being there for me.*
Dearest Amy,I have a wonderful marriage and despite I still find a lesson in each of your emails. I love getting these friendly reminders... Sometimes we get so caught up in what we think is "real" that we loose sight of the truth.Once again, thank you for all your emails I look forward to each one.*
You have been of great help to me and my wife. I am sharing everything with my wife and I can slowly see the changes. I know it will take time and I want to thank you for showing some interest in my marriage. Your advice and encouragement is like sunshine and good music to me . I really appreciate your time and effort in making sure I receive information from you. My wife is finally sitting down and reading the articles you sent and we have good discussions in the house in the evenings. Thanks so much, you are a blessing!*
Thank You for all your advice as I have enjoyed reading your email's. My marriage relationship has turned 360 degrees as we have been getting along really well the past few weeks, laughing, loving and sharing. At 50 years young and after 25 years together I've learned and grown so much that I actually like our relationship better now than before. Thanks again...*
I stumbled across your website and confess it has been a great blessing to me for the last five days. After reading through your well-written and straight-to-the-point articles, I feel I am starting to find some meaning in my life again. Much of what you say requires that I honestly examine myself, and that is exactly what I am doing now. Be blessed.*
I really loved the free 6 e-mail mini course. I found the information you gave was very informative, I especially loved the one about affairs- Because i am always afraid of this happening to me. The information was so interesting and you looked at all angels and gave lots of advice about affairs and why they happen. Most of my worries and fears are because i do not know much about things, reading your article gave me more confidence because now i know the signs, if and when they occur. Keep up the good work!*
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